Whether you're considering separation, navigating parenting arrangements, preparing a Will or exploring alternatives to court, it's natural to have questions.

Our Frequently Asked Questions page provides answers to some of the most common queries we receive, helping you better understand your options and what to expect. While every situation is unique and the information provided is general in nature, we hope these answers offer clarity and confidence as you take the next step.

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What should I do first when separating from my partner?

If you are thinking about separating, or have recently separated, getting legal advice early can help you understand your options before important decisions are made. You do not necessarily need to start court proceedings or formal negotiations straight away. The first step is often understanding your legal position, identifying any immediate risks and working out what needs to happen next in relation to children, property, finances and living arrangements. A clear plan at the beginning can prevent unnecessary conflict and expense later.

Do I need a family lawyer when I separate?

Not every separation needs to become a legal battle, but it is sensible to understand your rights before making important decisions or signing an agreement. A family lawyer can advise you about parenting arrangements, property settlement, financial disclosure, child support, spousal maintenance and the different ways your matter can be resolved. Good family law advice should help you decide what needs legal intervention and what does not.

How is property divided after separation in Australia?

There is no automatic 50/50 rule in Australian family law. A property settlement depends on the circumstances of the particular relationship. The process includes identifying the parties' property, liabilities and financial resources, considering their contributions, considering their current and future circumstances and determining whether the proposed outcome is just and equitable.

How soon after separation can I do a property settlement?

You do not have to wait until you are divorced before dealing with property matters. Many separated couples begin negotiating a property settlement soon after separation. Getting advice early can help preserve records, clarify the asset pool and reduce the risk of financial arrangements becoming more complicated over time.

Is there a time limit for property settlement after divorce or de facto separation?

Yes. Time limits can apply to applications for property settlement. For married couples, an application generally needs to be made within 12 months after a divorce becomes final. For de facto couples, the usual time limit is two years after separation. There can be exceptions, so legal advice should be obtained promptly if a time limit may be approaching or has already passed.

Can I keep the family home after separation?

Possibly. Whether one person can retain the family home will depend on the overall property settlement, the value of the property, the mortgage, borrowing capacity and the other assets and liabilities available for division. A family lawyer can help you work out whether keeping the home is financially realistic and how it may fit within an overall settlement.

What happens to superannuation in a property settlement?

Superannuation can be taken into account in a family law property settlement and, in some cases, can be split between former partners. A superannuation split does not usually mean the money becomes immediately available as cash. The appropriate treatment of superannuation will depend on the parties' circumstances, the fund and the overall settlement.

Can my former partner hide assets or refuse financial disclosure?

Parties to a family law property matter are generally required to provide full and frank financial disclosure. This can include documents relating to bank accounts, property, companies, trusts, investments, superannuation, liabilities, income and other financial resources. If there are concerns that information or assets are being withheld, there are legal processes available to obtain further disclosure and, where necessary, seek court orders.

Do I have to be divorced before I divide our property?

No. Divorce and property settlement are separate legal processes. You can negotiate and formalise a property settlement before applying for divorce, and many people do so. It is important, however, to be aware that once a divorce becomes final, a 12-month time limit generally applies to commencing property settlement proceedings.

Who gets the children after separation?

Australian family law does not approach parenting cases on the basis that one parent automatically 'gets custody'. Parenting arrangements are focused on the best interests of the child. Depending on the circumstances, arrangements can deal with where children live, the time they spend with each parent, communication, schooling, medical issues, holidays and responsibility for important long-term decisions.

Do mothers and fathers have equal rights to the children?

Family law is concerned with children's best interests rather than giving either parent an automatic entitlement to a particular amount of time. There is no rule that children must spend equal time with each parent. Parenting arrangements should be developed around the individual child's needs, circumstances and safety.

Do I have to go to mediation before going to Family Court?

For most parenting applications, parents are required to attempt Family Dispute Resolution before applying to the Court and obtain a section 60I certificate from an accredited Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner. There are exceptions, including some cases involving urgency, family violence, child abuse or other circumstances where Family Dispute Resolution is inappropriate.

Can I resolve my family law matter without going to court?

Yes. Many family law matters are resolved without a Judge deciding the outcome. Depending on your circumstances, options can include direct negotiation, lawyer-assisted negotiation, Family Dispute Resolution, mediation or Collaborative Practice. If agreement is reached, your lawyer can advise you about the appropriate way to formally document it.

What is the difference between a parenting plan and parenting orders?

A parenting plan is a written agreement between parents about parenting arrangements. It can provide flexibility, but it is not itself enforceable in the same way as a court order. Parenting orders are legally enforceable orders made by a court. They may be made after a contested hearing or by consent if parents have reached agreement.

How long does a family law matter take?

There is no standard timeframe. A matter that reaches agreement through negotiation or mediation can resolve significantly sooner than a matter requiring contested court proceedings. Timing can also depend on the complexity of the finances, disclosure, parenting concerns, expert evidence and the willingness of both parties to negotiate.

Can I get family law advice if my former partner and I are still living together?

Yes. You can obtain legal advice before separation, immediately after separation or while you are separated under the same roof. Early advice can be particularly useful if you are considering moving out, changing financial arrangements, discussing parenting arrangements or making significant decisions about jointly owned property.

How much does a family lawyer cost?

The cost of a family law matter depends on the type of work required, the complexity of the issues and whether the matter can be resolved by agreement or requires court proceedings. A straightforward advice session or negotiated matter will usually cost less than a contested litigation matter. Before engaging a lawyer, you should be given clear information about how fees are charged and, where possible, an estimate of likely costs.

I'm not sure what kind of family law help I need. Where do I start?

You do not need to know which legal process you need before speaking to us. Our role is to understand what is happening, identify your immediate priorities and explain the available pathways. Sometimes that means negotiation or mediation. Sometimes court intervention is necessary. Sometimes the best first step is simply obtaining advice before making any decisions. Start with a plan, not just legal advice.

What is Family Dispute Resolution?

Family Dispute Resolution, often called FDR or family mediation, is a process that helps separated parents discuss parenting issues and try to reach their own agreement with the assistance of an independent Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner. The practitioner helps identify the issues, explore options and facilitate negotiation but does not decide the outcome for the parents.

Is Family Dispute Resolution the same as mediation?

The terms are often used interchangeably, but Family Dispute Resolution has a particular meaning within Australian family law. For parenting disputes, an accredited Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner can conduct FDR and, where appropriate, issue a section 60I certificate required for many parenting applications to the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia.

What is a section 60I certificate?

A section 60I certificate is a certificate that can be issued by an accredited Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner in connection with an attempt to resolve a parenting dispute. In most cases, a current section 60I certificate must be filed before an application for parenting orders can be commenced unless an exemption applies.

Do I have to attend Family Dispute Resolution before going to court?

Usually, if you want to commence proceedings seeking parenting orders. There are exemptions, which can include urgency and matters involving family violence or child abuse, as well as other circumstances specified by law. An FDR Practitioner will also assess whether Family Dispute Resolution is appropriate before conducting a joint mediation.

What happens at a Family Dispute Resolution intake?

Before mediation, the FDR Practitioner meets with each participant separately. The intake gives you an opportunity to explain the background, identify the issues you want to resolve and discuss any safety concerns or practical arrangements. It also allows the practitioner to assess whether FDR is appropriate and how the mediation should be structured.

Do my former partner and I have to be in the same room during mediation?

Not necessarily. Depending on the circumstances, FDR may occur jointly, by video conference, using separate rooms or through another appropriately structured process. Safety, power imbalances and each participant's ability to negotiate effectively should be considered when deciding how mediation will operate.

Can lawyers attend Family Dispute Resolution?

Yes, in private FDR it may be possible for lawyers to attend and assist the participants. Whether lawyers should participate will depend on the type and complexity of the dispute, the needs of the parties and the way the mediation has been arranged.

What issues can we discuss at Family Dispute Resolution?

Parenting FDR can deal with a wide range of practical issues, including where children live, time with each parent, holidays, communication, changeovers, schooling, medical issues, extracurricular activities and arrangements for special occasions.

What happens if we reach an agreement at mediation?

If you reach agreement, it can be recorded in writing. Depending on the circumstances, you may decide to enter into a parenting plan or obtain legal advice about having the agreement formalised through consent orders.

What happens if we cannot reach an agreement at Family Dispute Resolution?

Not reaching a complete agreement does not necessarily mean the mediation has failed. You may resolve some issues and narrow others. If parenting issues remain unresolved, the FDR Practitioner may issue an appropriate section 60I certificate, and you can obtain legal advice about your next steps.

What is Parenting Coordination?

Parenting Coordination is a structured, child-focused process designed to help separated parents manage ongoing co-parenting conflict and implement existing parenting arrangements. It is particularly useful when parents already have parenting orders or a parenting plan but continue to disagree about how those arrangements should work in everyday life.

What does a Parenting Coordinator do?

A Parenting Coordinator helps parents understand and implement their parenting orders or parenting plan, improve communication and address practical disagreements before they escalate. The process may include education about children's needs, communication strategies, conflict management and assistance resolving disagreements about the practical operation of parenting arrangements.

When should parents use a Parenting Coordinator?

Parenting Coordination may be helpful where parents experience repeated disputes about the implementation of parenting arrangements. Conflict may arise about changeovers, holidays, communication, children's activities, appointments or the interpretation of particular provisions in parenting orders.

How is Parenting Coordination different from mediation?

Mediation is generally used to help people negotiate an agreement about disputed issues at a particular point in time. Parenting Coordination is usually an ongoing process used after parenting arrangements have already been established. It helps parents implement those arrangements and deal with new day-to-day disagreements as they arise.

Can a Parenting Coordinator change our court orders?

No. Parenting Coordination is not a substitute for the Court and a Parenting Coordinator does not rewrite parenting orders. The role is to assist parents to understand, implement and work within the arrangements already in place and to resolve practical disputes within the scope of the Parenting Coordination process.

Can a Parenting Coordinator make decisions for us?

Parenting Coordination in Australia should not be confused with some overseas models in which a Parenting Coordinator may have decision-making or arbitral powers. The Australian process focuses on education, case management, recommendations and dispute resolution within the agreed or ordered scope of the appointment. A Parenting Coordinator does not replace a Judge.

Is Parenting Coordination confidential?

Parents should not assume that Parenting Coordination operates with the same confidentiality as private mediation. The terms governing communication, record keeping, recommendations and any reporting should be clearly explained at the beginning of the appointment.

How long does Parenting Coordination last?

Parenting Coordination is designed to operate over time rather than as a single meeting. The length of the appointment depends on the agreement or court orders establishing the process and the needs of the family.

Do both parents attend Parenting Coordination?

Generally, both parents participate in the process. There may also be individual intake meetings before joint sessions begin. The way sessions are conducted can be adapted to the circumstances of the family and any relevant safety considerations.

Can Parenting Coordination help us stay out of court?

That is one of its central purposes. Repeated disagreements about the operation of parenting orders can otherwise lead to ongoing involvement from lawyers, further mediation or applications to the Court. Parenting Coordination gives parents a structured way to deal with those problems earlier, with the goal of reducing conflict and keeping children out of the middle of adult disputes.

What is Collaborative Family Law?

Collaborative Practice is a structured way of resolving family law issues without going to court. Each person has their own collaboratively trained lawyer. Rather than negotiating through adversarial correspondence or preparing for litigation, the parties and their lawyers work together in a series of meetings to identify priorities, exchange information, explore options and negotiate an agreement. Other professionals, such as a financial neutral, child specialist or collaborative coach, may also become part of the team where appropriate.

How is Collaborative Practice different from mediation?

In mediation, an independent mediator facilitates negotiations between the parties but does not act as either person's lawyer. In Collaborative Practice, each person has their own lawyer throughout the negotiation process. The lawyers provide legal advice while working within a structured, non-litigious process designed to reach agreement.

Is Collaborative Practice only for couples who get along?

No. You do not need to be friends with your former partner to use Collaborative Practice. Disagreement is expected. What matters is whether both people are prepared to participate genuinely, exchange the information required and work towards resolving the issues without using court proceedings as a negotiating weapon.

Can we still have our own lawyers in a collaborative divorce?

Yes. Each person has their own independent collaborative lawyer advising and supporting them. Your lawyer's role remains to protect your interests and ensure you understand the legal consequences of the decisions being discussed. The difference is the way everyone works towards resolution.

What happens in a Collaborative Practice meeting?

Collaborative meetings usually involve both parties and their collaborative lawyers, with other members of the professional team attending when needed. Rather than exchanging lengthy letters or offers through lawyers, issues are discussed around the table. The team identifies what matters, gathers the necessary information, develops options and works progressively towards agreement.

What is a Collaborative Participation Agreement?

At the beginning of the collaborative process, the participants enter into a Participation Agreement setting out how the process will operate. A central feature is the commitment to resolve the issues outside litigation. If the collaborative process ends and one of the parties decides to litigate the issues covered by the agreement, new legal representation will generally be required.

Do we still have to provide financial disclosure in Collaborative Practice?

Yes. Collaborative Practice relies on transparency. The parties agree to openly provide the financial and other information needed to make informed decisions. The absence of courtroom proceedings does not mean financial disclosure becomes optional.

Is Collaborative Practice cheaper than going to court?

It can be. The cost depends on the complexity of the matter, the number of meetings required and the professionals involved. Collaborative Practice is designed to direct professional time towards resolving problems rather than preparing for contested hearings. Many families also value the privacy, greater control and flexibility of the process.

Can Collaborative Practice deal with both parenting and property matters?

Yes. Collaborative Practice can be used to resolve financial and property issues, parenting arrangements or both. The interdisciplinary model can be particularly useful where financial and parenting issues overlap.

What happens once we reach an agreement?

Once agreement is reached, your lawyers can advise you about how it should be legally documented. Depending on the issues involved, this may include an Application for Consent Orders, financial agreement, parenting plan or other appropriate documentation.

Do I Need A Will If I Am Married?

Yes. Marriage does not replace the need for a Will. A properly drafted Will allows you to decide who will inherit your assets, who will administer your estate and who will care for any children under the age of 18.

Without a valid Will, your estate will be distributed in accordance with the laws of intestacy, which may not reflect your wishes.

What Happens If I Die Without A Will?

If you die without a valid Will, your estate will be distributed according to Victorian legislation.

The distribution of your assets may not align with your intentions and can create additional stress, delays and costs for your loved ones.

Preparing a Will allows you to maintain control over how your estate is managed and distributed.

When Should I Review My Will?

We recommend reviewing your Will regularly and whenever there is a significant change in your circumstances.

This may include:

  • Marriage or divorce
  • Separation
  • Entering a new relationship
  • Having children or grandchildren
  • Purchasing property
  • Starting or selling a business
  • Receiving an inheritance
  • Changes to your financial circumstances
What Is An Enduring Power Of Attorney?

An Enduring Power of Attorney allows you to appoint someone you trust to make financial and personal decisions on your behalf if you lose the capacity to make those decisions yourself.

It is an important part of a comprehensive estate plan and can provide valuable protection if unexpected illness, injury or incapacity occurs.

What Is A Medical Treatment Decision Maker?

A Medical Treatment Decision Maker is a person you appoint to make medical treatment decisions on your behalf if you are unable to make those decisions yourself.

Appointing a trusted decision maker helps ensure your wishes are respected and provides guidance to medical professionals and family members during difficult circumstances.

What Is A Testamentary Trust Will?

A Testamentary Trust Will establishes a trust upon your death that can provide additional flexibility and protection for beneficiaries.

Depending on your circumstances, a Testamentary Trust may offer advantages such as asset protection, tax planning opportunities and greater control over how assets are managed for future generations.

We can discuss whether a Testamentary Trust Will may be appropriate for your circumstances during your appointment.

Can I Update An Existing Will?

Yes. If your circumstances or wishes have changed, your existing Will can often be updated.

In some cases, a simple amendment may be appropriate. In other circumstances, preparing a new Will may be the better option.

We can review your existing documents and provide advice tailored to your situation.

How Long Does It Take To Prepare A Will?

Timeframes vary depending on the complexity of your circumstances.

For straightforward matters, documents can often be prepared promptly following your appointment.

If more complex estate planning advice is required, including Testamentary Trust arrangements, additional time may be needed to ensure the documents properly reflect your wishes.

Do You Offer Fixed Fee Estate Planning Packages?

Yes. We offer a range of fixed fee estate planning packages, including Wills, Powers of Attorney and combined estate planning packages.

Our fixed fee pricing provides clarity and certainty so you understand the cost of your estate planning from the outset.

Can Appointments Be Conducted Online?

Yes. We offer both in-person and online appointments, allowing clients throughout Victoria and Australia to access estate planning services conveniently and efficiently.

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